Is there no HELP for a WIDOW’S DAUGHTER
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Is there no Help for a Widow’s Daughter
The most thankless job in the illusion was being female. There was an overriding need for the male to survive. Initially it would not do so. It just became overly contained with excess energy, became riddled with disease, and died. What was Needed was stimulus to prompt it into action — any kind of action. “TAKE OUT THE GARBAGE!”
The female was constructed as an energy-design expression of stimulus. If you are a female reading this, please understand that you are from the great realm of Free-Flowing energy. Your principal Connection and Awareness of Self is not that of having to be a stimulus design. Your innate understanding of self is that of expressing what was authorized to exist by the “boss” gear in the real dimensions. Your essence is energy, forced into a stimulus purpose.
Recognize that forcing stimulus to take on expression in the illusion as a physical being was a last ditch effort to keep the male design (that failed to function as the Man design) to survive. Sad to say, it was a contrivance of both energy and Stimulus to satisfy the demand that the illusion expression (that of “See and Be” that the “boss” gear directed be expressed) stay in existence – survive. It is and has always been unfair for all stimulus expressions to have to do the job they were assigned.
Instead of being the stuff expressing everything in real dimension that the “boss” gear directed for real balance to reconstitute, here you have been relegated to the demeaning role of prompting stuff into being expressed by the illusion’s energy-design male. Let me invite you to a new and liberating idea. Could it be that the best stuff of energy was selected to do the hardest job. It sure would be nice to get back home where you can be with your own ilk – where you are properly appreciated and understood. The triumph is coming for you, not so much as a female or even as a stimulus design, but rather as energy.
Let me invite you to another idea, another question. Which is better, being a “jabbing-thumb” trying to get another body to do something, or returning to your home realm where you get to express everything that the newly minted Man designs will come up with as their Inspirations. Which is better, being the hand or being the energy out of which the Whole body is expressed. (Often winding up being abused or denigrated or worse for doing your assignment as a stimulus design does not seem all that inviting to me.)
As the new Man designs get support doing their Inspirations, the faster the reality of this illusion will move into the real dimensions. As this happens the need for loud Stimulus goes away. Less and less energy-design stimulus expressions will be needed as the dimension shifts. More and more of you all get to go home as this happens. May I suggest to you that this is a good thing which should be encouraging.
The difficult thing for you was that your body was designed to overwhelm the male design. If the male would not or could not expel enough excess containment, the default relief valve was sex. This put a huge burden on the female stimulus design. They were damned if they did and damned if they didn’t. Males soon learned how vulnerable they were to the female design and powerless before it. The female design all too easily, and understandably, became enchanted with their power. After all, it seemed to support their design purpose and their double-layered contract – that of stimulating the male to action and at the same time promoting satisfaction of the overshadowing contract of procreation’s survival agenda.
The problems arrive when the male winds up learning that the female is treacherous and betrays them. They get hurt. They learn to protect themselves against their vulnerability and denigrate the female with their language, perceptions and actions toward that which they all too soon learn to become afraid of. Some cultures handle this problem by relegating the female to the veil. The word “wife” comes from the Indo-European root of “weip” meaning wrapped or hidden, veiled one. The “weip” protected the female from assault and forestalled the male from being obligated (as father, brother, or even partner) to battle in the role of protector. We see all the unhappy dynamics that arise from the male trying to keep control over his life and from having to battle because of failing to protect the female in all the extreme cultural traditions associated with the veil and burka of today.
In the past, in the “old story”, the male had the double layer contract overshadowing of responding to the stimulus design of the female (with its procreation survival dynamic) and “protecting” the female under the Power contract of the survival overshadowing put on the illusion. From this arose the understanding of “honor”. The sentiment of it is huge in the energy-design male. This is less prevalent in the stimulus-design male, unless it is a specific contract. The sentiment, the instinct of this “honor” thing is something that words alone can not express. It was False-honor, but it is all the male had to go with. It had to do with, at its root, protecting the female. When the female seemed to betray the male, everything is undercut for him, at the root of his sentiment. For the female, honor is something that carries little weight. And so it should be, given their assignment to do the action of stimulus at all costs (just to keep the male of dying from disease) and because of the compelling requirement of procreation’s survival contract.
So, in the end, it is irrelevant if the female is viewed as treacherous, just so long as it accomplishes its two-fold tasks. This is a thankless state of affairs. It has led to the “old story” agenda of stimulus acting the role of False-boss in the illusion. This gave rise to the movement of the female taking on the role of directing leadership. It is okay with the stimulus-design males, since they already command that position as opposed to the normal male. Those who are stimulus are all the same team for them.
The NEW STORY will support the stimulus design in accord with its original purpose. It was supposed to support the male. It was to help invigorate the male to find its “inspiration” in the “old story”. Supporting the male now as it moves to becoming Man will get the support of energy and this will bring the stimulus design balance.
In the “old story” the male was to have the impetus to do expression. It never worked out well. The best that could be accomplished was the sad result of stimulus bossing the male design. This is a generalization, but fundamentally the male design didn’t have any true source of Inspiration within to discover or feel impelled by. It only had contract overlays that directed it. Sometimes this did show up as leadership or doing something personal as in a business or directing a corporation or political party. Most often it did not. Most often it resulted in the male design being directed by stimulus in the role of boss. This is over now. To preserver with this preconditioned behavior will lead to growing excess of contained energy in the stimulus design of both genders. Supporting the male and Man expression will bring balance to the stimulus designs. Failing to do so will result with ever growing excess, aberrant and extreme behavior, disease, and death.
Now, as the male design sheds contract by walking away it can connect to the place within its design where the “boss” gear was to reside. That voice-within spot cannot be active. Those male design expressions that come to walk away from contract and respond to the voice-within Inspiration gear become newly minted Man designs.
How the female stimulus design can successfully support the Man designs and the NEW STORY agenda and its BIG PICTURE is a good question. It is an impossible proposition for the female to make itself suddenly subservient, all the while trying to get ahead, keep a job, support a family and advance its own life style. So, what to do.
All that is needed is understanding and a realignment of orientation of purpose. No obvious or direct action is needed, and especially no diminishment of self is required at all. Simply having a different agenda within, to which the secret self of the female is in tune, with will probably be enough. Energy will support your balance when you have that new purpose held as the heart of your intent. One need not directly support a male. One only need to see a male who needs support and wish it so. Maybe you are in a distant supervisor position or upper management level and can obliquely advance things. Maybe you are simply a person on the street and can obliquely advance things. Maybe you can directly and openly site your support for a male advancing the agenda of his Inspiration.
Yes, it is still a thankless job for the female. This is so sad. Your design drives you to do what it can do all too well, and there can never be any real recognition that seems to come forward for its value. There never seems to be any properly formulated offering of respect for what you are designed to do. This is because the male has had too many scares to ever trust the female.
The male cannot, safely, correspond to a female helping out. It has no way it knows how to do so. Being gracious is one thing, but being vulnerable is completely another. Betrayal and manipulation is always the lesson that rears its head for the male. Things get so confused and wrongly turned out when there never was, necessarily, any intent to do harm. It could be said that the male has the preconditioned understanding that it is too vulnerable to the female design. This goes both ways. The female gets hurt too and all too often gets physically abused or worst.
But, there is a happy conclusion. With male become Man, autonomy becomes present in that gender’s expression. They will have Inspiration speaking its “boss” gear voice within. They will have purpose. From that internal position, they will be able to appropriately correspond to the female design. They will have the adequacy from within to be at ease with gracious behavior. With the sense of autonomy within they will be invulnerable to the fear of treachery’s betrayal. Their sentiment of honor will be correctly anchored to self and expression. The need to protect the female has been lifted as an overshadowing contract. The confusion of that has been eliminated. Both can now move forward and attract Balance to self by being responsive to their respective design purpose.
The thankless job will soon end for the Widow’s Daughter and she will finally be able to go home.
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